Wednesday, January 14, 2009

overview about the book

read the overview about the story. Comment by adding 5 sentences of your reflection and 3 questions you want to learn from the story.

Pelzer was the third born of five children. His father was a fireman and, according to Dave, his mother was originally a loving, kind and wonderful person who would try to do anything for her family. The abuse gradually started when he was about five. At that point, Dave could tell what kind of day he could expect to have by the way his mother was dressed. If she was all made up then he could expect a good day, but if she wasn't he knew he would be hit, yelled at, punished, or all three.
The book describes the worsening abuse that Pelzer suffered at the hand of his mother and her alcoholism. Most speculate that she had some other addiction or a chemical imbalance but none is known. The abuse escalated when Dave was seven years of age when he was told he would stay back in first grade for another year. It's not made clear whether the school or his mother made this decision. At this point he began to be punished severely, made to do extra chores, and was banned from family activities. The beatings began to increase and now began to happen with his father around as well. The "good days" were becoming few and far between. That summer he was excluded in a family vacation. At first he tried to stop the abuse but as time went on felt unable to intervene.
The next year the abuse intensified and at that point he was not even allowed to eat meals with the family. That Christmas, Dave's mother showed him a letter she claimed that came from North Pole. It stated that Dave was a bad boy and would get no toys for Christmas. That Christmas David found only a couple books for him. A few months later, his mother attempted to burn Dave on a stove when he was 8 years old. Abuse increased even more after that. By the time he was in second grade at 8 years old, his mother began to make him go without food for extended periods of time. The abuse gets worse and David is forced to sleep in the basement and perform even harder labor. He got an average of half a meal a day on a good day. When David was 10, she also stabbed him in the stomach "accidentally", as Pelzer notes in the book—and did not take him to the hospital (though she did take care of the wound herself). By this point he was no longer considered part of the family and lived in the basement, denied basic contact, play, and food. His mother stated that she did not want Dave to interact with "her family".
Over time the depth of the abuse worsened. Dave claimed he was forced to sit in the "prisoner of war" position (head bent backwards facing sky, sitting on hands). His mother stopped using his name and began referring to him first as "The Boy" and finally "It". The punishments are reported to have evolved into "sick games" in which she made her son suffer.
Incidents cited in the book include forcing ammonia down his throat, sitting in a sealed bathroom while inhaling the fumes from a bucket of ammonia mixed with bleach (Gas Chamber), inducing vomiting followed by forced ingestion, smashing his face against a mirror while forcing him to say "I'm a bad boy", lying in the bathtub naked with freezing water for hours, rubbing his face in his baby brother's soiled diaper, trying to make him eat his youngest brother's feces, as well as starvation and general malnutrition, and "accidentally" stabbing him with a knife when he didn't meet the time limit to do the dishes. His mother also put his hand on a gas stove which caused his hand to burn to crisp. She also said, "Now sit on the stove so I can watch you burn and die."
In each of the sequels, the author reveals more forms of torture he did not describe in this book (e.g., his mother hitting his neck with a broom handle, causing his neck to swell so that he was unable to breathe).
David generally only got food when his father was home, for example. In the face of this abuse, his father gradually distanced himself from the house, and finally moved out days after David turned 12 years old. About two months later, on March 5th, 1973 David was rescued by teachers at his school.

8 comments:

  1. I think that the boys mother is wrong for beating him the way she does. I think that the story only gets worse from here. His mother is nice in the beginning but i think that after her relationship with his father ends she will become a drunkard. I think he looks like his father so she takes that out on him. I think her son is either his half brother or just doesn't look like his dad.

    I want to know whats going to happen to his mom.
    i want to know why it took so long to save him.
    I want to know why she started beating him.

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  3. i have reads that the mother is a main problem in the story already to the child. the mother treats the young boy like crap. the mother hits and beats him. the boy trys to hide and keep it a secret but the school eventually always finds out about all the scars, scraps and bruises.i want to know if the problems going to be solved. i want to know if the mother changes for the childen in general i hope. i want to know where the father went.

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  4. I DON'T LIKE THE FIRST COUPLE CHAPTERS BECAUSE THEY ARE BORING. I THINK ON THE FOURTH CHAPTER IS WHEN THE BOOK GETS INTERESTING. THE MOM IS A CRAZY DRUNK LADY WHO SMOKES TOO MUCH METH, WELL I DON'T KNOW IF THAT'S TRUE BUT THAT'S WHAT IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME. I WOULD NOT HAVE MY MOM TREAT ME LIKE SHIT I WOULD HAVE TAKEN OFF THE FIRST TIME SHE TRIED TO SWING AT ME. STUPID LADY TRIES TO SWING AT ME, HA...LETS SEE HE TRY.

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  5. in the book that we read so far was that david, the main character is born into a loving family. his mother and father loved each other very much. david explains how much his mother showed affection for him and his brothers when he was younger. this being explained in the second chapter. the first chapter david explains how his present life is bad and how he is being treated badly by his mother. he does his chores after being hit in the face by his mother then he goes to school. its at school where he is sent to the nurses office to get looked at. two of his teachers are fed up with the abuse they know is going on but can't do nothing about. he tells the nurse everything she has been doing to him. then he goes to class where he is being rediculed for the clothes he wears and be his smeel because thats the way his mother wants to humiliate him. he gets called back into the office where his principle is wating for him with the nurse and a police officer. they give him foo because his mother starves him and he tells tthem everything. they want to call his home to tell his mother what he problem is but david refuses because he tells them she will beat him some more when he goes home and he doesn't want to go through that. then the cop ends up calling his mother and telling her david is not going home.

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  6. the book that we had just read was about a mother beating up her child. The kid told someone at school and they took him to child custodys. He had thought that he was introulbe but once they told him whats going on he was scared beacuse he didnt want his mom to know about him telling.i think its think it was really wrog for the mom beating up the lil kid.

    #1 i want to know if the mom is going to jail?
    # 2 i want to know where the boy is gunna go at ?
    # 3 i want to know if the mom is going to try and kidnapp the boy?

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  7. According to the overview, and the first 2 chapters that I've read, the child Dave once had a good life with his family that he might not be able to enjoy again. Dave gets brutally beaten by his mother who was nice to him ever since Dave had to stay in his grade level for one more year. The dad leaves the house leaving his kids behind, and he probably left, because he didn't want to deal with what the mother was doing. The mother made Dave felt like he was a very bad boy, which he wasnt. The mother treated him like he was excluded from the family since he could no longer join them in anything. The mother's beatings left Dave with many scars, that will forever leave memories. The school nurse records all the scars on his body. This part is when the school comes to his rescue....

    1.) Why did the dad leave, instead of helping Dave?
    2.)Why did the nurs took a long time to report this abuse to the police?
    3.)What was the real specific cause of Dave's beatings? and how did the mother become so abusive?

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  8. The story im reading is about this boy that gets abused. The boy does not want to tell that his mom hits him and he is always trying to cover up for her. when he goes to school his teacher sees him brused up and would ask him what happened. he would always lie about it and think of an excuse to tell them. the boys mom was not always like that she was nice and good to him.
    i want to know what els is going to hapen to him?
    i want to know why his mom is mean?
    i want to know what happened to his dad?

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